JUST MY TYPE
a 3-day virtual group cohort
for enneagram twos only.
A deep dive into how your enneagram type becomes itself all over again (and again, and again)
only 12 spots
11 SPOTS LEFT
October 5, 7, & 9
10 am-12:30 pm est.
Can't make the dates? NO WORRIES!!
You will get lifetime replay, worksheets, cohort slides, audio and video recordings, the opportunity to submit and still have questions answered and more.
JUST
MY TYPE IS…
A live 3-day deep dive designed to help you finally understand the deeper intelligence, scaffolding, and foundations underneath your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns so you can finally answer WHY DO I DO THAT, WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT, AND HOW DO I STOP?
JUST MY TYPE helps you deep dive into what you need to do things differently than you would automatically do them…
with JUST your type.
YOU KNOW YOUR TYPE.
You get it… “I need to be needed.” (whatever!)
YOU have access to all the information about YOU.
So then why is it so damn hard to break up with your recurring, bullsh*t personality patterns?
Because personality isn't meant to be convenient, random, or easy to change.
Because personality serves a defensive purpose.
Because personality is designed to protect you while you get what you want, and it's the most automatic thing about you.
That's why.
And everyone at this table gets it.
Pull up a chair. You don't have to explain yourself here.
It's your table, too.
You won't find a more comprehensive deep dive into your Enneagram type than with […] Jackie Contessa. […]
Even if you think you've got a grasp on your type and why you do the things you do, I promise you'll come out of this with something new and immediately applicable to be the best version of yourself.
KYLEE
There's nothing that keeps us stuck quite like knowing you're an enneagram two but still…
self-abandoning when the moment comes up to locate and speak your needs… and even if you know what you need, bringing them up directly feels like the end
compulsively filling in gaps, over-giving, and automatically jumping in when people need it, are not okay, or are uncomfortable… you can't help but do for others what they can do for themselves
being emotionally exhausted from doing lots of loving labor that isn't mean just for one, and feeling more disconnected from yourself and others than ever… and feeling very unappreciated for the effort
experiencing resentment in relationships, and you don't even know how you got there but now you're stuck between wanting to give more love or take it all away
having a hard time identifying what you need, why you need it, and what makes you you but wanting other people to be able to read your mind and know what you need
living like every disappointment, disapproval, and rejection matters at an identity level
people-pleasing, having a hard time saying no, and automatically offering love, support, and pursuit
confusing being needed and useful with being wanted and loved
being unsure why it's so threatening to “be you” or why you're “keeping score” when you actually don't care about who is winning
Then you're in the right place.
Our cohort starts on OCTOBER 5
Let her lead you like she has led me to recognize that the greenest grass is right where you're standing as long as you take the time to care for it.
CAROLINE
What are days 1-3 like?
WHY DO I DO THAT?
Understanding what you want, what you are protecting and, since personality serves of defensive purpose, what we are defending after all. We will lay the foundation for why your patterns make physical, mental, emotional sense to you. Type, meet the CORES, key beliefs, and everything in between.
WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT?
How does my type keep perpetuating the personality patterns in my life? Here we learned the main traits, subtypes, and more areas that reveal loops, actions and reactions, emotional and mental habits, and the main traits that make personality re-create a loop in itself.
HOW DO I STOP?
The big question for us all. On day three we work towards what conscious interruption looks like, rather than the idea that these patterns are some thing we have to get past. We lay out a full-time type continuum and what real time interruption looks like for us, as well as addressing the fear of “letting go” of our personalities.
we start in…
HERE'S WHAT'S COVERED:
More than just basics, how the core mechanism of your type sets the blueprint for what you want and how you get it.
What the core struggle of pride actually is and how it's a by-product of heart center shame and is really hard to pick out of a line up
The conscious and subconscious key beliefs that uphold our recurring vices
Your main traits of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are perpetuated by your vice, your core desire, and the defensive purpose your personality serves.
The defense mechanisms and mental and emotional habits that are so automatic that they feel justified.
Instincts, subtypes, and how HOW we do our WHY has a huge impact on our patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving
How our core recurring struggle organizes our personality and stacks our priorities
The TRIADS that make up your type
ALL recurring, bullsh*t patterns every single one of these areas of life.
well hurry! there are only 12 spots
I love the words and pictures Jackie provides to help explain and support a perspective. I’ve already felt shifts in my thinking which helps me take responsibility for the outcome.
I would easily recommend Jackie if you are invested in understanding the “why” for yourself.
JULIE-ANN
So here's what I'd like you to leave with after 3 days, even though you'll still leave as an enneagram two…
understanding what you need to about pride so that you can recognize your needs in real time and connect with why they matter so that your identity is based in YOU
understanding what goes into genuine vs. automatic generosity, availability, caretaking, nurture, and support so you know when you are choosing it
understanding the line between care and nurture as a gift vs. a sense of self in relation to how others respond… especially when we so reflexively jump in we believe it's because we really need to help
understanding hidden needs, expectations, and patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving so there are opportunities for real connection going forward in relationships… like how to build a you that doesn't actually feel like it threatens a we
understanding what makes and strengthens a relationships is the one with self, so identity is not built around who needs you, what you bring, or how you make other people feel about you or themselves
understanding why small shifts feel like "evidence" that you are "not wanted, not important, or not lovable"… how we might deal with those responses, and what is actually hiding under the surface of it all
understanding what boundaries and a lack of boundaries actually does to free love, relationships, and mutuality… and how boundaries are actually the only honest attempt at keeping a connection
understanding how the many attempts to outsource self-love from others perpetuates a cycle of constant unmet needs… so there's language on why our needs feel so needy all the time
understand the real fears underneath fully being you in relationships
12
IS THE MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF SEATS FOR EACH JUST MY TYPE TABLE.
(I like things cozy.)
YOU'RE LIVING THE AUTOMATIC PATTERNS YOU WANT OUT OF.
YOU MIGHT AS WELL UNDERSTAND THEM ENOUGH TO GIVE YOURSELF THE CHOICE.
JUST MY TYPE FOR TWOS
isn't for everyone, but it is for you if…
You know that you know that you know that you're an Enneagram Two
You are deeply attuned to what other people need and what you believe they want from you, but feel strangely disconnected and distant from what you need and how to get it
You have an identity around being caring, supportive, loving, needed, emotionally available, and easy to love… but you don't know what makes you up outside of that. How loved you feel makes up who you feel you are.
Your deep, underlying longing to feel chosen, loved, and wanted leads to a puncture-like feeling when others don't reciprocate love and approval… especially because you are waiting for permission to love and approve of yourself
You feel as though it takes effort to be important, irreplaceable, and indispensable in other people's lives… to really matter
You feel a tension between feeling as though you are too needy and too unaware of what you actually need. In fact, your whole identity is based off of being easier to need than to know
You struggle to wrap your mind around the idea that people can and will love you just for existing. You reflexively offer or pursue, and if love or attention is offered from someone without you having done something for it, it feels untrustworthy and weird
You have a cycle of overextending yourself, suppressing your needs and feelings, having expectations that others will love you in specific ways, and feeling deflated when that is not the case… that is eating you alive.
YOU ARE UNSURE WHY YOU REALLY DO THAT (GIVING AND ATTACHING AND LOADS OF EMOTIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND DIFFICULTY RECEIVING AND OTHER PATTERNS THAT KEEP YOU SEARCHING FOR LOVE) AND HOW YOU REALLY STOP
$247
the time and material in just my type is valued at $1,500
FAQ
WHAT EXACTLY IS JUST MY TYPE?
Just My Type is a live, type-specific-ONLY deep dive over 3 days and 6.5 hours together.
It's designed to help you understand the deeper emotional, mental, behavioral, and instinctual patterns under your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns… Around a table of people who are only your Enneagram type.
We go over core-to-pattern continuums in a way that is designed to help us answer the questions, “Why do I do that?” and “How do I stop?”
IS THIS FOR ENNEAGRAM BEGINNERS?
Not really. This space is best suited for people who already know their enneagram type and have a need to go beyond basic or introductory description and into a level of information designed to make actualized changes. You don't need to be an expert, but you should have some foundational familiarity around your type structure. If you're not sure what your Enneagram type is, try a typing session.
IS THIS INTERACTIVE?
Yes, it is as interactive as you want it to be. There will be heavy teaching, interpretation, frameworking and more, but there will also be live discussion, hot seat coaching, and a safe space for shared observations and real time reflection and processing… all with people who are just your type. You can also choose to opt out of interacting.
WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO REPLAYS?
Yes, for life. All live sessions will be recorded and uploaded to a shared drive. You will have lifetime access to the material. This also means that if you can't make it live, you don't need to sweat it. You can learn through the replays.
WHAT RESULTS SHOULD I EXPECT?
Just My Type's goals are based in setting the beginning of a much deeper relationship with yourself.
While you will not become a “better type” in 3 days, you will leave having a deeper self-recognition of patterns and where they come from, emotional clarity, pattern awareness, language for internal and external experiences, a map for the logic underneath thinking, feeling and behaving, and the beginning to interrupting automatic patterns.
CAN I JOIN MULTIPLE TABLES?
No. You should only join the cohort of your actual Enneagram type, but you get points for wanting to be a good friend. The depth of this experience is meant to be based on shared safety. You can purchase the course recording after the live cohort, which is not include the discussion pieces and hot seat coaching. Thanks for being patient and keeping the spaces safe for everyone. I love you so much!
IS JUST MY TYPE REFUNDABLE?
All sales of Just My Type are final, but transferrable. If you want to transfer sale/attendance to another individual OR another type table pending approval before cohort start, please email [email protected]
Jackie was kind and patient. Very knowledgeable and explained things in a graceful and comprehensive way. The session was informative but also felt collaborative.
Like we were finding me together.
MEGHAN
JACKIE CONTESSA
HOST OF THE 3-DAY-COHORT
HI!! I'm Jackie Contessa. I'm an Enneagram coach, a life coach, host of the Table for 9 Podcast, and I specialize in what comes after learning about your Enneagram personality type…
Breaking up with your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns.
Here are a few things about me.
I believe that someone “like you” is WITHOUT A DOUBT capable of doing something “like that”.
I believe you can only be empowered as yourself to ultimately be yourself.
And I believe the table has room for everyone, and every table you sit at should always have room for the real you… sans personality patterns.
Love ya! Mean it!!!!!!
Oh, and I'm ALSO an Enneagram TWO! My arms are naturally stuck in the Godfather pose.
JUST MY TYPE FOR ENNEAGRAM TWOS
STARTS IN…
let go or be dragged.
break up with your recurring,
bullsh*t personality patterns.
go from enemies to lovers with yourself.
the seat is yours if you want it.