JUST MY TYPE
a 3-day virtual group cohort
for enneagram threes only.
A deep dive into how your enneagram type becomes itself all over again (and again, and again)
only 12 spots
october 12, 14, & 16
10 am-12:30 pm est.
Can't make the dates? NO WORRIES!!
You will get lifetime replay, worksheets, cohort slides, audio and video recordings, the opportunity to submit and still have questions answered and more.
JUST
MY TYPE IS…
A live 3-day deep dive designed to help you finally understand the deeper intelligence, scaffolding, and foundations underneath your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns so you can finally answer WHY DO I DO THAT, WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT, AND HOW DO I STOP?
JUST MY TYPE helps you deep dive into what you need to do things differently than you would automatically do them…
with JUST your type.
YOU KNOW YOUR TYPE.
You get it… “i can't like my image more than i like myself” (I literallyyyyyy can't see the difference but okay!)
YOU have access to all the information about YOU.
So then why is it so damn hard to break up with your recurring, bullsh*t personality patterns?
Because personality isn't meant to be convenient, random, or easy to change.
Because personality serves a defensive purpose.
Because personality is designed to protect you while you get what you want, and it's the most automatic thing about you.
That's why.
And everyone at this table gets it.
Pull up a chair. You don't have to explain yourself here.
It's your table, too.
Through the understanding of The Enneagram, Jackie has been able to not only help me understand myself more but also help me break the emotional and mental chains that held me back.
JAMIE
There's nothing that keeps us stuck quite like knowing you're an enneagram three but still…
Feeling so disconnected from yourself in the process of winning, succeeding, and doing really well… wondering why success and doing the damn thing doesn't feel the way you thought it would
Burning out on both ends, overworking, emotionally disconnected, and have a lot of worries tied to your self worth around the pressure to be the best… without even understanding your own bar for what that means
The comparison, quiet competition, and needing to be the winner for secret fear of being a loser is so automatic that you don't even realize image management when it's happening
Knowing exactly what looking confident and put together looks like competes with how you feel on the inside, and you spend a lot of mental energy wondering if anyone knows who you are, or if anyone sees right through you
Caring about and shape shifting around the markers of success so automatically because you weren't in touch with who was actually walking into the room to begin with
Avoiding emotions, truths of reality, and internal struggles, hiding them from BOTH other people AND yourself, because they threaten how you feel about yourself and make you feel like you'll fall behind
Not always quite understanding or feeling connected with the most important end goal of something, but feeling uncomfortable with slowing down and taking a beat to decide what you need to do
Wondering what people would respect about you if you weren't doing what you are doing
Feeling like failure isn't just an outcome, but a fatal and final judgment on who you are and what you are worth
Then you're in the right place.
Our cohort starts on OCTOBER 12
Our session was insanely informative, […] incredibly validating and in turn, healing.
It helped me feel like I’m on the right path, and further along than I give myself credit for.
sami
What are days 1-3 like?
WHY DO I DO THAT?
Understanding what you want, what you are protecting and, since personality serves of defensive purpose, what we are defending after all. We will lay the foundation for why your patterns make physical, mental, emotional sense to you. Type, meet the CORES, key beliefs, and everything in between.
WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT?
How does my type keep perpetuating the personality patterns in my life? Here we learned the main traits, subtypes, and more areas that reveal loops, actions and reactions, emotional and mental habits, and the main traits that make personality re-create a loop in itself.
HOW DO I STOP?
The big question for us all. On day three we work towards what conscious interruption looks like, rather than the idea that these patterns are some thing we have to get past. We lay out a full-time type continuum and what real time interruption looks like for us, as well as addressing the fear of “letting go” of our personalities.
we start in…
HERE'S WHAT'S COVERED:
More than just basics, how the core mechanism of your type sets the blueprint for what you want and how you get it.
What the core struggle of vanity and its BFF self-deceit actually is and how it's a by-product of heart center shame
The conscious and subconscious key beliefs that uphold our recurring vices
Your main traits of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are perpetuated by your vice, your core desire, and the defensive purpose your personality serves.
The defense mechanisms and mental and emotional habits that are so automatic that they feel justified.
Instincts, subtypes, and how HOW we do our WHY has a huge impact on our patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving
How our core recurring struggle organizes our personality and stacks our priorities
The TRIADS that make up your type
ALL recurring, bullsh*t patterns every single one of these areas of life.
well hurry! there are only 12 spots
As someone who has been learning about the enneagram for a couple of years, I took away lots of new key insights about myself!
Jackie is upbeat, positive, and passionate about seeing people get 'unstuck' and reaching their fullest potential.
gisselle
So here's what I'd like you to leave with after 3 days, even though you'll still leave as an enneagram three…
learning the big, fat, WHY around image management and why it feels so much easier to be a “slave to praise” than to find something you'd love and go for it
learning what roles and identities served your greater motivation to succeed and how to start separating your image from your identity
understanding what you need to about vanity and self-deceit so that you can see through your own eyes instead of living for the POV of others
understanding what patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving come from preventing certain failures, setbacks, criticisms, or perceptions
a true grasp of what your personality is REALLY after every time you need to be the best, the fastest, the most accomplished, or the relative winner
a full conviction that your ambition, worth, and authenticity are never in competition with one another, and there is another opportunity to win within authenticity
learning what it looks like in practice, bumps and bruises, to make and keep contact with the authentic you, and still be able to do what you need to do to win… all in line with you
permission to exist, live out loudly, and be loved beyond what you believe you can achieve
understand your expectations of what YOU THINK others are expecting of you and adjust the expectations you are self-inducing
12
IS THE MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF SEATS FOR EACH JUST MY TYPE TABLE.
(I like things cozy. And I know you like things private.)
YOU'RE LIVING THE AUTOMATIC PATTERNS YOU WANT OUT OF.
YOU MIGHT AS WELL UNDERSTAND THEM ENOUGH TO GIVE YOURSELF THE CHOICE.
JUST MY TYPE FOR THREES
isn't for everyone, but it is for you if…
You know that you know that you know that you're an Enneagram Three
You are incredibly capable, adaptable, and insanely good at figuring out what success requires from you… but you still can't put a thumb on who you really are and what you'd choose outside of that
You have a hard time separating goals from expectations of yourself, your ambition from what deserves love and admiration, and your identity from what your titles are… and it feels important to maintain it all but empty
You have a hard time with failure, but you have an even harder time with winning because you don't know how to not make achievements obligations and you're wondering what life would look like as you
You want to understand the deeper mechanics behind ambition, image, adaptation, productivity, achievement, emotional disconnection and all their patterns… and what remains of your drive when you choose to be you on the daily
You feel like being admired and respected for what you do or have done is easier than being present… the idea of being present feels like something to do and not be connected with
You know that you need to slow down to hear what is under the noise, but you are secretly worried that if you really slow down it'll show that there is nothing underneath what you're accomplishing
As competent and accomplished as you are, you still cannot answer for who you are, what you actually want, who you are when the performance stops, what you really want out of life, and why you're feeling so lost and uncomfortable during rest
YOU ARE UNSURE WHY YOU REALLY DO THAT (STRIVING, ADAPTING, CLINGING TO WHAT IS GOING TO PROMISE WINNING, EMOTIONAL SUPPRESSION, INAUTHENTICITY EVEN WHEN IT COUNTS, IDENTITY CONFUSION, PERFORMANCE, STRUGGLING TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOU REALLY ARE, AND NEEDING TO BE ACCOMPLISHED, IMPRESSIVE, AND RESPECTED AND SHAPE SHIFTING TO DO IT) AND HOW YOU REALLY STOP
$247
the time and material in just my type is valued at $1,500
FAQ
WHAT EXACTLY IS JUST MY TYPE?
Just My Type is a live, type-specific-ONLY deep dive over 3 days and 6.5 hours together.
It's designed to help you understand the deeper emotional, mental, behavioral, and instinctual patterns under your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns… Around a table of people who are only your Enneagram type.
We go over core-to-pattern continuums in a way that is designed to help us answer the questions, “Why do I do that?” and “How do I stop?”
IS THIS FOR ENNEAGRAM BEGINNERS?
Not really. This space is best suited for people who already know their enneagram type and have a need to go beyond basic or introductory description and into a level of information designed to make actualized changes. You don't need to be an expert, but you should have some foundational familiarity around your type structure. If you're not sure what your Enneagram type is, try a typing session.
IS THIS INTERACTIVE?
Yes, it is as interactive as you want it to be. There will be heavy teaching, interpretation, frameworking and more, but there will also be live discussion, hot seat coaching, and a safe space for shared observations and real time reflection and processing… all with people who are just your type. You can also choose to opt out of interacting.
WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO REPLAYS?
Yes, for life. All live sessions will be recorded and uploaded to a shared drive. You will have lifetime access to the material. This also means that if you can't make it live, you don't need to sweat it. You can learn through the replays.
WHAT RESULTS SHOULD I EXPECT?
Just My Type's goals are based in setting the beginning of a much deeper relationship with yourself.
While you will not become a “better type” in 3 days, you will leave having a deeper self-recognition of patterns and where they come from, emotional clarity, pattern awareness, language for internal and external experiences, a map for the logic underneath thinking, feeling and behaving, and the beginning to interrupting automatic patterns.
CAN I JOIN MULTIPLE TABLES?
No. You should only join the cohort of your actual Enneagram type, but you get points for wanting to be a good friend. The depth of this experience is meant to be based on shared safety. You can purchase the course recording after the live cohort, which is not include the discussion pieces and hot seat coaching. Thanks for being patient and keeping the spaces safe for everyone. I love you so much!
IS JUST MY TYPE REFUNDABLE?
All sales of Just My Type are final, but transferrable. If you want to transfer sale/attendance to another individual OR another type table pending approval before cohort start, please email [email protected]
I left armed with an arsenal of information that could propel me in the direction of a more fulfilled life. If you’re looking to gain insight into what makes you tick Jackie is your girl.
LUCY
JACKIE CONTESSA
HOST OF THE 3-DAY-COHORT
HI!! I'm Jackie Contessa. I'm an Enneagram coach, a life coach, host of the Table for 9 Podcast, and I specialize in what comes after learning about your Enneagram personality type…
Breaking up with your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns.
Here are a few things about me.
I believe that someone “like you” is WITHOUT A DOUBT capable of doing something “like that”.
I believe you can only be empowered as yourself to ultimately be yourself.
And I believe the table has room for everyone, and every table you sit at should always have room for the real you… sans personality patterns.
Love ya! Mean it!!!!!!
JUST MY TYPE FOR ENNEAGRAM THREES
STARTS IN…
let go or be dragged.
break up with your recurring,
bullsh*t personality patterns.
go from enemies to lovers with yourself.
the seat is yours if you want it.