JUST MY TYPE
a 3-day virtual group cohort
for enneagram sixes only.
A deep dive into how your enneagram type becomes itself all over again (and again, and again)
only 12 spots
11 spots left
NOVEMBER 2, 4, & 6
10 am-12:30 pm est.
Can't make the dates? NO WORRIES!!
You will get lifetime replay, worksheets, cohort slides, audio and video recordings, the opportunity to submit and still have questions answered and more.
JUST
MY TYPE IS…
A live 3-day deep dive designed to help you finally understand the deeper intelligence, scaffolding, and foundations underneath your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns so you can finally answer WHY DO I DO THAT, WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT, AND HOW DO I STOP?
JUST MY TYPE helps you deep dive into what you need to do things differently than you would automatically do them…
with JUST your type.
YOU KNOW YOUR TYPE.
You get it… “I HAVE TO TRUST MYSELF AND STOP OUTSOURCING AUTHORITY” (SUSPICIOUS THAT YOU CARE SO MUCH BTW)
YOU have access to all the information about YOU.
So then why is it so damn hard to break up with your recurring, bullsh*t personality patterns?
Because personality isn't meant to be convenient, random, or easy to change.
Because personality serves a defensive purpose.
Because personality is designed to protect you while you get what you want, and it's the most automatic thing about you.
That's why.
And everyone at this table gets it.
Pull up a chair. You don't have to explain yourself here.
It's your table, too.
She made me feel right at home and earned my trust to put it all on the table for me to work on some areas in my life.
She highlighted my strengths and pointed to the fears that were only masked by lies. She gave me clear lenses and shined clarity into areas I had given up on.
NATHALIA
There's nothing that keeps us stuck quite like knowing you're an enneagram six but still…
Struggling to make decisions because making the wrong one feels freaking fatal and no one seems to know what they're talking about
Feeling like the answer you're looking for, the thing you need to uncover is one question or investigation away… just to get more questions and feel more unsure
Wasting excessive mental, emotional, and physical energy trying to prevent and solve for problems that may or may not exist in the future but do not exist right now
Feeling the relief of finally having made a decision but being unable to fully let go in the finality of it and questioning or trying to convince ourselves it was the right one
Being able to see every single risk, but not being able to recall a single memory of bravery and self-confident courage when it matters most
Having a funny dance with how you define loyalty and betrayal, and how others in your world would define it, but not knowing what to make of the gap and assuming people can't be trusted
Believing that if you don't replay conversations, you will surely have missed something
Cycling through uncertainty, being super sure, needing reassurance, feeling temporary relief, and then feeling doubt and uncertainty again JUST when you thought you were landing on something
Genuinely believing that others and the uncertainty of the world are the source of your doubt and uncertainty in the moment even though deep down you know your skepticism is contributing to these patterns
Then you're in the right place.
Our cohort starts on NOVEMBER 2
Our session was insanely informative, […] incredibly validating and in turn, healing.
It helped me feel like I’m on the right path, and further along than I give myself credit for.
sami
What are days 1-3 like?
WHY DO I DO THAT?
Understanding what you want, what you are protecting and, since personality serves of defensive purpose, what we are defending after all. We will lay the foundation for why your patterns make physical, mental, emotional sense to you. Type, meet the CORES, key beliefs, and everything in between.
WHY DO I KEEP DOING THAT?
How does my type keep perpetuating the personality patterns in my life? Here we learned the main traits, subtypes, and more areas that reveal loops, actions and reactions, emotional and mental habits, and the main traits that make personality re-create a loop in itself.
HOW DO I STOP?
The big question for us all. On day three we work towards what conscious interruption looks like, rather than the idea that these patterns are some thing we have to get past. We lay out a full-time type continuum and what real time interruption looks like for us, as well as addressing the fear of “letting go” of our personalities.
we start in…
HERE'S WHAT'S COVERED:
More than just basics, how the core mechanism of your type sets the blueprint for what you want and how you get it.
What the core struggle of anxiety actually is and how it's a by-product of (and differently entirely than) head center anxiety… not to be confused with fear
The conscious and subconscious key beliefs that uphold our recurring vices
Your main traits of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are perpetuated by your vice, your core desire, and the defensive purpose your personality serves.
The defense mechanisms and mental and emotional habits that are so automatic that they feel justified.
Instincts, subtypes, and how HOW we do our WHY has a huge impact on our patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving
How our core recurring struggle organizes our personality and stacks our priorities
The TRIADS that make up your type
ALL recurring, bullsh*t patterns every single one of these areas of life.
well hurry! there are only 12 spots
As someone who has been learning about the enneagram for a couple of years, I took away lots of new key insights about myself!
Jackie is upbeat, positive, and passionate about seeing people get 'unstuck' and reaching their fullest potential.
gisselle
So here's what I'd like you to leave with after 3 days, even though you'll still leave as an enneagram six…
understanding the nuances around fear, anxiety, and projection so that you can trust your intuition and use the right side of selective recall to remember when you've gotten yourself through
a map of where the uncertainty, source of perceived threat, and need to investigate come from, the purpose they serve, and what it looks like to actually meet your motive
understanding what you need to about anxiety so that you can recognize projection, when your intuition is actually speaking to you, and how to localize the source of the threat to self regulate
the language around how your personality works hard to create a sense of safety and the patterns that need to be broken up with to trust yourself without perfect certainty
understanding where the confusion between making a careful assessment and trying to eliminate all perceived source of risk is, and how to think about what you're thinking about to clear the confusion
learning the way that unproductive thinking, worst-case thinking, and the doubt cycle fill in the gaps when we don't have the answers, and how to use cold hard data rather than feelings of uncertainty
how to “find the clash” between the perceived threat and the perceived source
recognizing what patterns of thinking and thinking loops erode confidence and trust in self and others, and how to unlearn the lies to relearn some truths
creating your own truths, your own key beliefs about who you are and what you can survive so that this is the data you use as authority
12
IS THE MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF SEATS FOR EACH JUST MY TYPE TABLE.
(I like things cozy.)
YOU'RE LIVING THE AUTOMATIC PATTERNS YOU WANT OUT OF.
YOU MIGHT AS WELL UNDERSTAND THEM ENOUGH TO GIVE YOURSELF THE CHOICE.
JUST MY TYPE FOR SIXES
isn't for everyone, but it is for you if…
You know that you know that you know that you're an Enneagram Six
You have an incredibly loyal, responsible, and committed side, but you also struggle to trust yourself totally because you've had lots of conflicting thoughts, feelings, and actions
You struggle to know whether or not the problems you're trying to solve exist right now, and you'd like to learn more around the mechanics of what it is you're protecting and what you want
You crave a sense of trust, guidance, security, and certainty… but the sources of these things never stay trustworthy for very long and you feel ready to start anchoring that trust, guidance, and certainty in yourself to get yourself through a changing world
You feel torn between what feels like intuition and what you are told is projection, and you would really like to trust yourself to know the difference so you can feel good about it
You no longer want to live in the space between needing support from an authority or source and proving to yourself and others that you do not need it
You are sick and tired of wondering if you have missed something important, whether or not you can trust your own judgment, and whether or not you will survive if something goes badly and would like to uncover what you are hiding from yourself
You feel a deep rooted fear that guidance will abandon you when you need it most, resulting in emotional tension, automatic investigation, and exhausting internal pressure that you are really ready to start letting go, one small step at a time
YOU ARE UNSURE WHY YOU REALLY DO THAT (CRAVING SUPPORT WHILE RESISTING BEING DEPENDENT, WANTING CERTAINTY WHILE DISTRUSTING THE SOURCES, QUESTIONING LOYALTY, SPECTRUM OF REASSURANCE, DOUBT CYCLE, PROJECTION AND SPLITTING, FEAR OF FULLY LETTING GO, HYPERVIGILANCE) AND HOW YOU REALLY STOP
$247
the time and material in just my type is valued at $1,500
FAQ
WHAT EXACTLY IS JUST MY TYPE?
Just My Type is a live, type-specific-ONLY deep dive over 3 days and 6.5 hours together.
It's designed to help you understand the deeper emotional, mental, behavioral, and instinctual patterns under your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns… Around a table of people who are only your Enneagram type.
We go over core-to-pattern continuums in a way that is designed to help us answer the questions, “Why do I do that?” and “How do I stop?”
IS THIS FOR ENNEAGRAM BEGINNERS?
Not really. This space is best suited for people who already know their enneagram type and have a need to go beyond basic or introductory description and into a level of information designed to make actualized changes. You don't need to be an expert, but you should have some foundational familiarity around your type structure. If you're not sure what your Enneagram type is, try a typing session.
IS THIS INTERACTIVE?
Yes, it is as interactive as you want it to be. There will be heavy teaching, interpretation, frameworking and more, but there will also be live discussion, hot seat coaching, and a safe space for shared observations and real time reflection and processing… all with people who are just your type. You can also choose to opt out of interacting.
WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO REPLAYS?
Yes, for life. All live sessions will be recorded and uploaded to a shared drive. You will have lifetime access to the material. This also means that if you can't make it live, you don't need to sweat it. You can learn through the replays.
WHAT RESULTS SHOULD I EXPECT?
Just My Type's goals are based in setting the beginning of a much deeper relationship with yourself.
While you will not become a “better type” in 3 days, you will leave having a deeper self-recognition of patterns and where they come from, emotional clarity, pattern awareness, language for internal and external experiences, a map for the logic underneath thinking, feeling and behaving, and the beginning to interrupting automatic patterns.
CAN I JOIN MULTIPLE TABLES?
No. You should only join the cohort of your actual Enneagram type, but you get points for wanting to be a good friend. The depth of this experience is meant to be based on shared safety. You can purchase the course recording after the live cohort, which is not include the discussion pieces and hot seat coaching. Thanks for being patient and keeping the spaces safe for everyone. I love you so much!
IS JUST MY TYPE REFUNDABLE?
All sales of Just My Type are final, but transferrable. If you want to transfer sale/attendance to another individual OR another type table pending approval before cohort start, please email [email protected]
Before working with Jackie I went in with a tinge of skepticism thinking, “How accurate can this really be?”
Welp… she read me like a book.
[…] I left armed with an arsenal of information that could propel me in the direction of a more fulfilled life.
LUCY
JACKIE CONTESSA
HOST OF THE 3-DAY-COHORT
HI!! I'm Jackie Contessa. I'm an Enneagram coach, a life coach, host of the Table for 9 Podcast, and I specialize in what comes after learning about your Enneagram personality type…
Breaking up with your recurring bullsh*t personality patterns.
Here are a few things about me.
I believe that someone “like you” is WITHOUT A DOUBT capable of doing something “like that”.
I believe you can only be empowered as yourself to ultimately be yourself.
And I believe the table has room for everyone, and every table you sit at should always have room for the real you… sans personality patterns.
Love ya! Mean it!!!!!!
JUST MY TYPE FOR ENNEAGRAM SIXES
STARTS IN…
let go or be dragged.
break up with your recurring,
bullsh*t personality patterns.
go from enemies to lovers with yourself.
the seat is yours if you want it.